Hi Robert, sharing those thoughts is important to your ability to get through. I lost my Judy eight years ago now, and learning to put things in imaginary folders, to "open" and peruse and weep and then close for a while to get on with the life we now have, has been helpful to me.
My place is a right mess now due to not expecting anybody to walk in the door, I know I could and should do something about that.
The true treasures of this life are those memories that we have because that person shared it with us.
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