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Originally Posted by harrisop48
I deliberately left Andy alone the early part of last week following the fire. This was to allow him to come to terms with it and sort out some immediate issues.
I spoke to Andy Thursday night and asked him to respond to Yeti's comments.
He has not yet had time to do this but assures me all damage is covered by insurance. He will be going into a short term rental for 2 weeks whilst hunting a long term rental for 6 months, pending rebuild/refurbishment. He understands folks are feeling his pain and appreciates your kind thoughts but would prefer not to have any involvement in crowd funding.
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Hi Peter, thank you
One of the first things Andy will need help with, is to do an inventory for what was lost or damaged. This can be referred to in case the insurers start to be difficult. He is going to need someone he can trust and who is loyal to him, someone who will do the paperwork, keep all receipts and who is able to get 3 prices for each item the family needs for replacements, furniture, bedding, clothes, household goods, then put it on a spread sheet for submission to the insurance company. He will need a project manager to keep an eye on costs with the rebuilding as some builders are notorious for cutting corners to save their own money. It seems overwhelming as Andy works full time, but these things can be overcome with the right help.
Support is not this week, it will have to continue in the weeks and months/years ahead. On top of that, there is the emotional and psychological damage done by a fire. A fire destroys memories, family photos, the feelings of being at home. Andy is going to have to face this and it is going to be hard on him and his family. I suspect it has not hit him yet.
We went through this ourselves in April 2011, when we lost the house and farm to a bush fire in South Africa, all that was left, was the clothes we stood up in. I write from personal experience and having dealt with a major loss, the insurance and rebuilding. The smoke stayed in my lungs for 3 weeks and one person died on the farm in her house during the fire. My reply concerns Andy and practical help.