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Originally Posted by Darcydog
We had a “friend” who would regularly beg a favour - we did get fed up with her constant neediness and gently started saying “no - sorry - not available because we are doing something else”
The response was emotional blackmail “You’ve really let me down”. “Why are you doing this to me” - etc.
In the end when she wanted a lift somewhere and we had another different event we were going to - we got the “your are letting me down” nonsense
Watch out for energy vampires - they drain you.
Get rid of them. They need you - not the other way round.
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Sometimes known as "fairweather friends", they take from you, but when you want something they are suddenly busy or can't help for one reason or t'other.