Awful not beeing able to visit my Dad ..
But finally getting somewhere with the Council social care funding my Dads Care Home costs.
So lots of worries to contend with. Dad had a fall in his room , and also additionally got a leg infection due to his own circulation problems .
In the mean time my step mum has been up and down with her health, and the issue of now living alone, although she does get 3 visits a day from social services and others from us, its not the same.
And during a home help visit yesterday she was taken very ill and been rushed off to Hospital .
A concern in itself just being in a hospital at the moment !
Honestly i think she may not come home .
, she will either stay in Hospital or be moved to a Hospice .
My Dad knows nothing of this situation , and not sure how to deal with it, a face to face talk is the way but can't visit him !.
Can only tell him by a message so impersonal , and he will just worry himself constanttly , which is understandable but ...
Don't know mums current prognosis yet , and I suspect its the original terminal diagnosis appearing early.
Chris