Grandy a post he has been putting off for some time

grandy · 23rd April 2015, 20:09

I know this is first and for most a car club,not a not a confessionary for illnesses , but feel I must talk to someone or go mad as I am on my own now ,and yes I still talk to her but she is no longer with me after 59 years,so perhaps I am going mad,get straight to it or knowing me I will be here all night some couple of months ago found hard lump under the front of my ribcage went to my doc about it and he instantly said well that is your liver and will send you for ct scan said I expect it could be return of your Cancer from couple of years ago and he was spot on unfortunately , the worst part about it this time is there is nothing they can do,it's terminal what can I say after such a statement I am noticing it in my driving and walking giddiness our loved ones are out there so have not driven since my audi a4 2.7tdi is up for sale on e bay I wont put the item number down as I may be breaking the rules of the club,am going to hand in my driving licence too,but have had a ball with you guys of that thank you very much it was great being a part of a great club,going to cut it short guys started on this thread feeing quite ok but in this short time don't feel so good.====GARY.

trikey · 23rd April 2015, 20:13

What can anyone say to a post like that, If there is anything you need, or anything we can do please drop us a pm.

Andy.

KernowRover · 23rd April 2015, 20:14

Very sorry to hear this Gary, you have been a great contributor to this forum and will be sorely missed.

Kind regards

Tom

hamster19 · 23rd April 2015, 20:15

Very sorry to hear that mate, very sorry indeed.

LotusLC · 23rd April 2015, 20:15

I have not met you but really sorry to be reading this post, take care of yourself the best you can......

cb750chris · 23rd April 2015, 20:16

Hi Gary,
Sorry to hear this news, hope you make the most of the time you have left

RPWC · 23rd April 2015, 20:20

Devastating news Gary,,not the kind of thing,you or anyone else wants to hear.
Hope they can at least make your life more comfortable.
All the best to you,I know that mey seem a stupid thing to say,but I don't know what to say.
You are very courageous in sharing this with is

Reebs · 23rd April 2015, 20:29

Gary, first and foremost you are among friends here and I think I speak for all when I say we are all routing for you. I can't imagine what you must be going through at the moment but if you are feeling low, remember you can always pop in here for some light relief.

Please feel free to list your Audi that's on ebay if you wish, you are a paid subscriber so put a link up if it will help.

Take care, and all the very best.

Paul.

coolcat · 23rd April 2015, 20:29

Hi Gary,

We have met on many occasions and you have always been a true gentleman and an inspiration to me on how to conduct ones self.

I had the pleasure of meeting your wife and having dinner at yours and will always remember that evening fondly Sir.

If you ever need to talk you know where I am and please whatever you do, don't be a stranger on here.
You have many, many friends here and even if your not driving but you fancy going down to the Halfway House or to any other meet it would be a privilege to take you along.

Ros and I send all our love to you and do hope we get to catch up soon.

FLYING BANANA · 23rd April 2015, 20:33

So sorry to hear this news Gary. Be strong my friend, you are amongst friends on here. If any of us can help in anyway please do not hesitate to ask.

23rd April 2015, 20:09	#1
grandy Passed Away rover 75 2ltr auto PETROL Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Basildon Posts: 1,425 Thanks: 220 Thanked 241 Times in 131 Posts	Grandy a post he has been putting off for some time I know this is first and for most a car club,not a not a confessionary for illnesses , but feel I must talk to someone or go mad as I am on my own now ,and yes I still talk to her but she is no longer with me after 59 years,so perhaps I am going mad,get straight to it or knowing me I will be here all night some couple of months ago found hard lump under the front of my ribcage went to my doc about it and he instantly said well that is your liver and will send you for ct scan said I expect it could be return of your Cancer from couple of years ago and he was spot on unfortunately , the worst part about it this time is there is nothing they can do,it's terminal what can I say after such a statement I am noticing it in my driving and walking giddiness our loved ones are out there so have not driven since my audi a4 2.7tdi is up for sale on e bay I wont put the item number down as I may be breaking the rules of the club,am going to hand in my driving licence too,but have had a ball with you guys of that thank you very much it was great being a part of a great club,going to cut it short guys started on this thread feeing quite ok but in this short time don't feel so good.====GARY.

23rd April 2015, 20:13	#2
trikey Premium Trader Rover 75 Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Devon Posts: 33,801 Thanks: 8,837 Thanked 14,831 Times in 8,030 Posts	What can anyone say to a post like that, If there is anything you need, or anything we can do please drop us a pm. Andy. __________________ Lest we forget..

23rd April 2015, 20:14	#3
KernowRover Posted a thing or two Rover 75 Saloon, 2.5 V6 Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Bude, Cornwall Posts: 1,207 Thanks: 239 Thanked 79 Times in 67 Posts	Very sorry to hear this Gary, you have been a great contributor to this forum and will be sorely missed. Kind regards Tom __________________ KernowRover Avid 75 Fan The Walnut Bling King. http://i1255.photobucket.com/albums/...ps0wrx8vrj.jpg

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LotusLC This is my second home MG ZT CDTi Auto / ZT-T Trophy Blue Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: York Posts: 3,981 Thanks: 3,329 Thanked 1,644 Times in 1,238 Posts	I have not met you but really sorry to be reading this post, take care of yourself the best you can...... __________________ Lotus Carlton - Number 852 (My old car) https://i.imgur.com/Cwa3376m.jpg

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cb750chris Trader Rover 75 Tourer Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Portsmouth Posts: 849 Thanks: 201 Thanked 292 Times in 200 Posts	Hi Gary, Sorry to hear this news, hope you make the most of the time you have left __________________ Now offering T4 services in the Fareham area Replacement keys programmed / supplied / cut Diesel 135 upgrade available IPK virginisation and T4 matching available Sorry, due to a big change in home circumstances, I am unable to do any large jobs at present, but can still offer evening time diagnostics.

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hamster19 Gets stuck in tourer conn CDTI Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: morpeth,northumberland Posts: 834 Thanks: 381 Thanked 112 Times in 105 Posts	Very sorry to hear that mate, very sorry indeed.

23rd April 2015, 20:20	#7
RPWC This is my second home 75 model car Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Newcastle upon Tyne Posts: 20,184 Thanks: 4,008 Thanked 5,083 Times in 3,114 Posts	Devastating news Gary,,not the kind of thing,you or anyone else wants to hear. Hope they can at least make your life more comfortable. All the best to you,I know that mey seem a stupid thing to say,but I don't know what to say. You are very courageous in sharing this with is __________________ Cheers. Rich…

23rd April 2015, 20:29	#8
Reebs Owners Club Director Rover 75 Conn SE V6 / MG ZT 260 SE V8 / MG ZT 180 SE V6 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Southampton Posts: 20,948 Thanks: 645 Thanked 6,851 Times in 2,537 Posts	Gary, first and foremost you are among friends here and I think I speak for all when I say we are all routing for you. I can't imagine what you must be going through at the moment but if you are feeling low, remember you can always pop in here for some light relief. Please feel free to list your Audi that's on ebay if you wish, you are a paid subscriber so put a link up if it will help. Take care, and all the very best. Paul. __________________ Check your trim here . Check your spec here Check your colour here . Check Project Drive here Check your original price here

23rd April 2015, 20:29	#9
coolcat This is my second home Audi Q3 TDI S-Line Quattro Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Clacton On Sea/On the boat somewhere Posts: 51,210 Thanks: 9,890 Thanked 12,235 Times in 8,232 Posts	Hi Gary, We have met on many occasions and you have always been a true gentleman and an inspiration to me on how to conduct ones self. I had the pleasure of meeting your wife and having dinner at yours and will always remember that evening fondly Sir. If you ever need to talk you know where I am and please whatever you do, don't be a stranger on here. You have many, many friends here and even if your not driving but you fancy going down to the Halfway House or to any other meet it would be a privilege to take you along. Ros and I send all our love to you and do hope we get to catch up soon. __________________ Jeff.

23rd April 2015, 20:33	#10
FLYING BANANA Moderator/Club Shop MG ZT 1.8t+. No.3 of 4 in Sunspot Yellow & Ford Fiesta in Black. Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Rattler Farm Posts: 22,599 Thanks: 9,270 Thanked 15,645 Times in 6,806 Posts	So sorry to hear this news Gary. Be strong my friend, you are amongst friends on here. If any of us can help in anyway please do not hesitate to ask. __________________ 233,625. That’s meet no.4 done. onen hag oll