Absolutley disgusting - Page 2

wraymond · 3rd July 2020, 10:57

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Originally Posted by macafee2

I was not putting limitations on the thread but to my question "should perspective girlfriends be able to check the history of their boyfriends".
Furthermore, the reason for putting the limitations was because I know the question was a can of worms and I wanted to stay focused.

I await your apology

macafee2

Get over yourself Ian! Apology? What for? The post's 2nd paragraph was proscriptive in that your 'I want you to', and 'you must put forward' was, or seemed to be, an attempt at controlling. And the 'perspective' led to further confusion - in me at least. If I misunderstood you, then I regret that of course. However, I think the remedy lies with yourself!

Simondi · 3rd July 2020, 15:48

Quote:

Originally Posted by macafee2

I was not putting limitations on the thread but to my question "should perspective girlfriends be able to check the history of their boyfriends".
Furthermore, the reason for putting the limitations was because I know the question was a can of worms and I wanted to stay focused.

I await your apology

macafee2

Quote:

Originally Posted by wraymond

Get over yourself Ian! Apology? What for? The post's 2nd paragraph was proscriptive in that your 'I want you to', and 'you must put forward' was, or seemed to be, an attempt at controlling. And the 'perspective' led to further confusion - in me at least. If I misunderstood you, then I regret that of course. However, I think the remedy lies with yourself!

For goodness sake the pair of yous. Try and act like grown ups, it's not difficult.

MissMoppet · 3rd July 2020, 15:52

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Originally Posted by Simondi

For goodness sake the pair of yous. Try and act like grown ups, it's not difficult.

Apparently it is . . . for some.

wraymond · 3rd July 2020, 17:04

There seems to be some activity behind the scenes here. There is no animosity between us. And never has been. I always avoid personal conflict and endeavour to post sensibly. Are there Snowflakes hiding? What on Earth is going on? Conflict seems contagious. Curiously, not unlike a virus. I wonder if my expressing a certain regret fell on studiously myopic eyes. There must be some growing up to do.

macafee2 · 3rd July 2020, 19:18

Quote:

Originally Posted by wraymond

Get over yourself Ian! Apology? What for? The post's 2nd paragraph was proscriptive in that your 'I want you to', and 'you must put forward' was, or seemed to be, an attempt at controlling. And the 'perspective' led to further confusion - in me at least. If I misunderstood you, then I regret that of course. However, I think the remedy lies with yourself!

Because I think I deserve one, you thought I was trying to control the thread, I was not and have said so. Therefore because you made a mistake you should apologise
What is your suggestion for a remedy?

macafee2

macafee2 · 3rd July 2020, 19:22

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Originally Posted by Simondi

For goodness sake the pair of yous. Try and act like grown ups, it's not difficult.

If you feel I am out of order, I apologise.

macafee2

Westonboy · 3rd July 2020, 19:27

Personally If I was involved I would prefer a calm sort out via a pm otherwise the temptation on open forum is to always have the last word.

Simondi · 3rd July 2020, 20:11

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Originally Posted by macafee2

If you feel I am out of order, I apologise.

macafee2

No worries

, thanks for posting

trikey · 3rd July 2020, 22:09

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Originally Posted by Simondi

Try and act like grown ups, it's not difficult.

Id rather not..

You grow up, you get old... you get old, you die.

Mentally I'm still 12, you can get away with sh1t when you are 12

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Westonboy Posted a thing or two Honda Jazz Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Llangollen Posts: 1,025 Thanks: 301 Thanked 344 Times in 158 Posts	Personally If I was involved I would prefer a calm sort out via a pm otherwise the temptation on open forum is to always have the last word.