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2nd December 2011, 19:15 | #1 |
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So depressed
As most of you know by now the garage andy and myself run has now closed. I have taken another job on driving 7.5 tonne fridge lorrys. I start at stupid o'clock in the morning, never know where you're going the next shift, what time you will start work, have to sit and wait for a phone call at anytime to just drop everything and go to work.
Xmas is nearly here, I have my two boys that have already been through hell to support, a wife that is ready to give birth anytime after xmas, no money, cant sleep because of these stupid hours I'm now working and worrying about everything. what a time this has all come, just feel so down and depressed. I'm not a bad lad and I do work hard and try to help people, but why does life have to be so horrible and such a battle for some people?
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2nd December 2011, 19:43 | #3 |
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Hey John. Having met you and your dear lady a number of times I know that you are definitely one of the 'good guys' in this world.....and one of the nicest people I have met. These things happen...not because of owt you have done or not done, they just do, sadly! That said, you need to keep it all in perspective. For the time being you have employment....it'll probably turn out to be one of those less than pleasant 'fill-in' jobs till summat better comes along...but summat better will indeed come along! So, hard as it may seem right now, take it a day at a time and look forward to Christmas and the new little one.....and if you want a chat you know where I am matey.
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Hi John
We live in a world where bad things happen to good people. I know a lot of people on this forum care deeply for you and I promise you - things will get better.
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2nd December 2011, 19:47 | #5 | |
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John, as someone who has had sleep problems (and depression) in the past I'd advise you to try and get more sleep (easier said than done I know). Insomnia really messes with your head. Most sleeping pills carry the risk of leaving you drowsy or irritable, but there are plenty of herbal sleep remedies out there. 'Sleepytime' tea is good, and lavender on the pillow (smells dubious but it is definitely relaxing). Hope things pick up for you soon.
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Hi John,
I can't imagine what you are feeling right now or are going through. I have had a really bad year myself but this is about you and not me. I wish there was a magic answer which I could pull out of my hat to make you feel better. One thing is certain and that is that you have mates in the club who are all rooting for you. Do look after yourself and if it feels really bad get along and see your Doctor. |
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unfortunately at the present time there,s probably a few thousand people could tell a very similar story and way things are who knows when times will get better, but at end of day you have family etc to think of to keep you going and it,s things like that keep most of us going. but as a thot, there,s always somebody worse off somewhere. so till times do get better we all just got to grin and bare it
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Hi john , i met you at ELVINGTON and your a strong character so knuckle down and just remember that life can be and IS tough sometimes .
For your new wife and for your children stay strong , this time next year it will all be a distant memory . Chin up bigman . |
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John you are a great guy,one of the best.Things seem hard at the moment but as I'm sure as we have discussed things will definitely get better.
You have done me a few favours in the past and if you need me to repay you with one,you know where I am. Going to miss the belly busters and swivelling in Andy's chair though.. Best wishes to yourself and Amy and see you soon. |
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Hope things improve for you John. My brother going through a rough time at the moment, decent bloke etc.
Jay
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